"Has the world's definition of beauty ever jaded me?"
Well, let's see: if by the "world" you mean media, or popular culture, then their definition of beauty might go something like this:
Beauty (Byoo-tee) n:
a person (usually a woman) possessing all of these traits:
- being thin, usually underweight
- being "fit," "toned," or "in-shape"
- having clear, tan skin
- being perfectly proportioned
- possessing a fearless, outgoing personality
- having hair that is always done flawlessly
I believe I would be lying, as most women would, if I were to say that this definition of beauty has never had an effect on me. I have often noticed that compared to most women on TV and in movies, I am slightly overweight, my hips are too wide, and my hair never seems to lay quite right.
Sure, this has bothered me from time to time, but I don't believe I've been jaded by it. It hasn't had a significant effect on my self-esteem or body image. I haven't tried desperately to change my appearance because of it and I haven't tried to conform to this image. I am quite happy being me. I get stressed enough on my own, I don't need to add to it the stress of trying to fit into the world's image of beauty.
I don't wear heels because they're uncomfortable. I don't dress in the highest fashions, because they only last for a few months before those clothes are useless. I haven't lost weight because I enjoy food too much and I don't work out because I have yet to find the motivation to do so. I don't take the time doing my hair in the morning because I'd much rather sleep an extra half hour/hour. And I'm not outgoing because I'm much more comfortable curling up with a book on a Saturday night than going out.
So in answer to your question: no, I have not been jaded by the world's definition of beauty. Their definition is based solely on appearances and uniformity. I base my opinion of beauty on uniqueness and the state of the heart.
i also lack the motivation to work out. and sugar is my favorite food group. and i also love to sleep in, that's how i've learned to rock my bedhead.
ReplyDelete*thumbs up* wonderful post.
Thank you! I'm even more unfortunate, my favorite food groups include:
ReplyDeletesugar, chocolate, butter, salt, and fast food.